Here is one of the confessions collected by Dr. Lipmann in "young and sexy", which describes this typical situation. This is the story of a girl from a simple family, totally ignorant about sex. "I thought that the child may be born from some kisses. When I was eighteen, I met with a man and, as they say, much in love. " She often met him, and in interviews he explained to her that, if she loves a man, she has to him to surrender, because men can not live without sexual relations, and as long as they are not able to marry, they are forced to engage in relationship with the girls. She did not agree. Once he organized the tour, during which they had to spend the night together. She wrote him a letter in which he said that it would be awful for her. On the morning of the appointed day, she handed him a letter, but he did not even opened it and went with her to the hotel. She respected and loved him, and so I went with him. "I was like under hypnosis. By the way, I begged him not to do it ... I do not remember how we came to the hotel. The only thing I remember - is that I was trembling. My boyfriend tried to comfort me; but I am a long time did not respond to his entreaties. At last my will was broken, and I let him do whatever he wanted. When later I came out of the hotel, it seemed to me that it all happened in a dream from which I had just woken up. " She did not want to meet with her lover, and for nine years later she had no men. Nine years later, she met a man who had proposed to her, and she accepted it.